Flag on the field !!!!

  How many times have you said "why didn't someone warn me", "Why didn't I see the red flags", or "IF I ONLY KNEW THEN WHAT I KNOW NOW". The truth is someone did tell you, you did see the red flags and you DID know then what you know now...... YOU, ME, WE just chose to ignore it. We chose to ignore the selfishness, the meanest, the negative energy, the love abuse, the red flags. 

There are so many times when  Ive sat back and make all of these statements. I've made mistakes, bad choices, believed in people that I shouldn't have and didn't walk away when I should have. The harsh reality is its no ones fault except my own. I decided to stay in relationships, friendships, jobs, places that I should've let go along time ago. However just because I stayed in bad situations doesn't mean it was all for nothing. 

I've gained a lot, learned a lot about myself, other people and most importantly GOD. I've learned that I'm stronger than I thought I was, wiser than I thought I was and that I wasn't living up to my full potential. And if I don't learn the lesson that God is teaching me in my current situation he will put me right back in the same situation over and over again until I finally get the lesson. 

"Trust your hunches. They're usually based on facts filed away just below the level of consciousness" Dr. Joyce Brothers